September 13th, 2011

Kilim: Ancient Communication Arts

Using gouache paints and a pencil, I made this for a dear friend who lives for her Red Hat Society group, so red and purple themes were a must. :)  

Sure, it looks like a bunch of triangles…but it’s actually a Kilim, based on the chest motif that originated in the ancient Anatolia (Asia Minor) area.


About The Art of Kilim

The lore of kilim motifs, designs, colors and their symbolism is as rich and complex as the combined heritage of cultures that gave them birth and contributed to their evolution.

One day a Yürük tribal chief saw a kilim rug cast on the ground by a tent. Looking at it brought anguish to his heart, so he called on his men to find the father of the girl who had woven that kilim rug. When the father of the girl was brought to the tent the chief asked:

"You have a daughter, don’t you?"

"Yes, I do" replied the father.

"As I understand it," continued the chief, "you want to marry the girl to someone she doesn’t want. She has set her heart on another."

At first the father was stunned - how could the chief know of this - but then his tongue was loosened:

"That’s true, I’m a poor man and the man who wants to marry my daughter is rich, so I promised to give him her hand in marriage. My girl, though, lost her heart to a poor young man…but how could you know of this?"

The chief pointed to the kilim rug on the ground saying:

"Didn’t your daughter weave this kilim rug?" 

"Yes, she did" said the father, to which the chief replied:

"So I knew about it from the language spoken by this kilim rug…I’ll give you a horse, a camel, go and marry the girl to the one she loves. Oh! and tell her this…she wove it well, but she should put a bit less of a green accent by the red…as it is, I was almost misled."

Translated from “Anadolu’da Kilimler de Konusur”, an article by Dr. Mehmet Onder in issue No. 11 of the magazine “Kultur ve Sanat” published by Turkiye Is Bankasi, Sept. 1999, Ankara, Turkey.


This touching, romantic story is a delightful illustration of the intricate art of communication practiced by the kilim weavers who are often illiterate in our sense of the word, but are wonderfully erudite in the language of kilim rugs.

Girls weaving kilim rugs for their dowry chests use this language to express their hopes for children, good fortune or a strong and handsome husband, while a married woman may show her irritation with a prickly mother-in-law or longing for an absent mate. Ancient tribal allegiance may also be expressed through symbols whose meanings are now perhaps forgotten but still kept in designs by some mysterious impulse of the subconscious.


August 19th, 2011

Basically, we discovered that in any interaction, the person with the higher status uses I-words less (yes, less) than people who are low in status. The effects were quite robust and, naturally, I wanted to test this on myself. I always assumed that I was a warm, egalitarian kind of guy who treated people pretty much the same.

I was the same as everyone else. When undergraduates wrote me, their emails were littered with I, me, and my. My response, although quite friendly, was remarkably detached — hardly an I-word graced the page. And then I analyzed my emails to the dean of my college. My emails looked like an I-word salad; his emails back to me were practically I-word free.

The Secret Language Code 

That’s psychologist James Pennebaker, for Scientific American, talking about the importance of those pesky pronouns.

I’ve spent time thinking about this, but often in the context of songwriters
or as a writer/designer of business communications. 


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August 15th, 2011
April 4th, 2011
I believe this notion of self-publishing, which is what Blogger and blogging are really about, is the next big wave of human communication.
Eric Schmidt, Chairman and CEO of Google
Eight years ago (2003) 
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February 28th, 2011
Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible.
Carl Jung, Memories, Dreams, Reflections
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